A little football, new toys, and family time.
Take this moment to pause
about where your walk with God has taken you.
Think about church
and your experiences within.
What are your early thoughts
of going to church
being a part of the church?
How has that changed?
Why has it changed?
What is one word
you might use to describe
the direction that our generation
or should be headed toward?
Where does the future
of the church lie?
How do we avoid the mistakes of the past
and head toward a church
as Christ intended
for our generation
and for our children’s generation?
A few days ago I had a conversation with a recent high school graduate at church. She asked me, “Is it possible for a guy to still be interested in a girl, even after she’s made it clear to him that she’s not interested?”
My answer: “Absolutely YES!”
Here’s what girls need to understand. Guys don’t understand hints. Even if you’re blunt, guys will interpret what you say to mean what they think you meant or what they want you to mean.
Let’s say Guy tells Girl he likes her. Girl thinks Guy is great, but as a friend, so she tells him she’s not interested in him like that.
Girl continues to remain friends with him maintaining their friendship.
Guy’s thought process goes as follows:
She says she’s not interested, but that just means she’s not interested NOW. She’s still talking to me, so she must like me a little. Maybe she’s not sure what she wants. I’ll keep talking to her and keep my interest in her and show her that she really is interested in me, and just doesn’t know it.
Guys are dumb. I’m telling you this from my own personal experience. I have been the one that just could not take the obvious hint that the girl was not interested. I have seen other guys make the same dumb move.
So girls, what do you have to do?
Stop talking to them.
I know, that sounds rough, but the only way a guy will really understand what “Not interested” really means is if the girl completely shuts him down. If you keep talking, you are still interested.
Guys just don’t think with their brains. They think with their hormones.
“Then I considered all that my hands had done and the toil I had expended in doing it, and behold, all was vanity and a striving after wind, and there was nothing to be gained under the sun.” – Ecclesiastes 2:11 (ESV)
What’s the point of what we do? What is our drive? Our reasoning? Our motivation?
Does it make you happy? Are you satisfied?
Solomon, the king of Israel, the person who was granted all wisdom by God, found all he did to be meaningless.
The work of his hands – meaningless.
The entertaining and pleasurable things – meaningless.
His own great and unsurpassed wisdom – meaningless.
We live, we work, we die, and all is forgotten.
Seems a bit melodramatic, but it’s a place we’ve all been at one time in our lives. The time when we look at ourselves, our lives, our future and ask:
“What’s the point?!”
And Solomon observes:
“There is nothing better for a person than that he should eat and drink and find enjoyment in his toil. This also, I saw, is from the hand of God, for apart from him who can eat or who can have enjoyment?” – Ecclesiastes 2:24,25 (ESV)
It is God who has given us these things to do, and we take pleasure in the duty that God has given us.
Because of Him we take pleasure in what we do.
In Him, we find meaning for our lives.
The next few posts will be some very late videos. This first one is a trip with the siblings to NYC during the Christmas Break. Watch the video below and enjoy!
My dad used to bring home this amazing coffee syrup for milk called Ice Java. The only place we could get it from was the local Acme supermarket, and even then only at a few select stores. We’d have friends come over and they would ask, beg, plead and bribe to have a glass of this stuff. That’s how good it was!
We would go through bottles of it so fast that my dad would have to buy a few of them and hide all but one, just so we didn’t finish it all too quickly.
Then we received some sad news.
Acme stopped carrying it. There wasn’t any announcement or anything. We just couldn’t find it in the coffee aisle anymore at the store. My brother and I were quite upset. We consoled each other through the rough patches and tried to find some alternatives, but nothing ever came about.
Apparently, my mom had cleaned out the pantry and found two bottles of Ice Java that my dad had hidden away and forgot about. They don’t expire until Feb/2010, but i doubt they’ll last that long.
YUMM! The last two bottles of Ice Java…
This is just a “poll” of sorts to get some perspective on your views. It’s for something I’m working on, which I hope to let you all see/read soon.
- What do you wear to church? Do you get all dressed up or do you go casual or something in between?
- If the majority of your church dresses up, and you came in one Sunday wearing jeans, would that be a problem?
- What are your thoughts on wearing jeans in church?
- What is the appropriate dress attire for church?